Lies, Betrayal and Penance.
Carla Axtman
Literature and film are rife with stories of friendship and betrayal. Tales of trusted bonds laying shattered and strewn are consistent fodder for drama.
In the unfortunate dramatic tale of Portland Mayor Sam Adams, much of the focus has been on Adams and his abbreviated (and questionably legal) fling with Beau Breedlove. Stories of lust and its often accompanying stupidity are ubiquitous in politics. The salaciousness of these sexual indiscretions certainly sell newspapers, but I don't find such stories especially intriguing anymore. At least not very often.
The person in this cast that I do find compelling is City Commissioner and long-time friend of Adams, Randy Leonard.
Leonard has been a stalwart and loyal friend to Adams for a number of years. According to Leonard, Adams lied to his face about Breedlove both publicly and privately. Moreover, Leonard fiercely defended Adams against the Breedlove charges in 2007...presumably with Adams full knowledge and support.
When I spoke with Leonard this week in his city office, it was evident that the betrayal is still raw. His eyes sparked with anger as we discussed what had transpired with Adams. "Sam is a good friend", said Leonard. "I defended him on a variety of issues." Leonard specifically listed the Sauvie Island Bridge relocation and the transportation fee/Paul Romaine situation.
Leonard called Adams "disingenuous" and expressed outrage that Sam hadn't "corrected the record".
Leonard also had no sympathy for Bob Ball, who was among the first to start talking up Adams's relationship with Breedlove to reporters. Leonard says that Ball was targeting Nigel Jacquiss, Anna Griffin and reporters at the Portland Tribune to get the story into print. "Bob Ball was looking to take Sam out (of the mayor's race). This was not some egalitarian duty." On the notion that Ball was somehow just trying to protect a vulnerable, under-aged kid, Leonard scoffed, "Ball is a police officer. He knows the reporting procedure."
As rumors about the Adams/Breedlove relationship began to swirl, Leonard says he privately confronted Adams. Denials ensued. Looking back, Leonard reflects about Adams's responses to the inquiries. "I can understand why he reacted the way he did. But then he asked Beau to lie--that really bothers me."
But that wasn't the end of the deception. Adams then allowed others to go out front in his defense. "Mark Weiner and I were thrown under the bus", Leonard said. He also said he couldn't do to Adams what Adams has done to him. "I couldn't sleep at night", he said. "He took advantage of me. He used me. He lied to me and has continued to lie throughout this process."
Leonard says his candid interviews of late about Adams are the mayor's "penance" for lying to him.
I then asked the Commissioner what he would do if he were presented with a recall petition to oust Adams. Leonard says not only would he not sign such a petition, he'd actively campaign against it. Leonard says he believes a recall or an advisory group (as suggested by Oregonian columnist Steve Duin) would devolve into a circus about gay, transgender and other issues, ultimately having nothing to do with Adams mayorship. As it is, Leonard says he believes that city business is moving forward.
As I left the office, there was evidence that Leonard was correct in part about the business of Portland moving forward. A group from the Fire Bureau gathered with him for his next meeting. But I can't help but wonder if everyone who comes into City Hall has the same distracted feeling that I do. Its in the very walls of the place.
I also wonder if trust can be rebuilt between the city and it's mayor. And between the mayor and the friend that in my view, he didn't and doesn't deserve.
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Feb 7, '09
Leonard scoffed, "Ball is a police officer. He knows the reporting procedure."
Bravo Randy!
The DHS reporting procedure is very specific. And not hard to find online for those who care to read it. Anyone in a "mandatory reporter" occupation should know the procedure. Anyone in public life who doesn't know the procedure should be shunned for claiming that talking to the press, spreading hearsay at a social event, or other methods less serious than the mandatory reporting procedure are an acceptable way to protect a minor.
People who really care about minors know the mandatory reporting procedure. People who bypass that procedure because they would rather spread rumors don't deserve the public trust.
Feb 7, '09
LT - do gossip mongers deserve the public more or less than elected officials who: 1. misuse campaign dollars; 2. knowingly cause false statements to be printed in order to influence the outcome of an election; 3. lie repeatedly to the public in order to influence the outcome of an election; 4. knowingly falsely accuse a man of rape in order to taint that man's reputation and protect said elected official's personal power;
...etc, etc.
Just curious how serious you are about the public trust.
Feb 8, '09
Stop with the gossip mongering and leave the poor guy alone. This is a non-issue. Enough already.
Feb 8, '09
Smart Move by Lenard to be publicly vocal against the recall.
This allows him to run for Mayor when Adams is removed. This increases his credibility as a candidate, for he can say that he was against the disruption the recall caused.
We think that Lenard is not giving his constituents enough credit by thinking that they would allow a recall effort to "devolve into a circus about gay, transgender and other issues".
It is our observation that those who "Support Sam" are in fact, the one that bring up sexual orientation as an issue. Where as, we who "Support Portland" want Adams removed for deliberately lying and abusing his power in orchestrating an elaborate cover-up that compromised the 2008 mayoral election. Through Sam Adams actions alone he made the citizens of Portland the victims of his deception.
Please visit our site and make up your own mind if you want to help make our government better,
RecallSamAdams.com
Feb 8, '09
The Mayor will likely be indicted and most certainly be recalled.
Randy's initial denial ("I only asked Sam if they had sex when Beau was still 17"), then (just days later) his faux outrage at being "lied to" seems implausible and self serving. Which is it, Randy: did Sam lie to you when the story first broke in 2007? Did he lie to you after flying home to D.C.? What if he's still lying to you now? Are you still willing to forgive and forget?
At what point would you be willing to support a recall campaign? After he's been indicted? After you realize he has lied to you yet again?
If you remain a stalwart supporter up to the bitter end, your political capital will be exhausted. Nobody likes a sychophant. Same goes for Amanda Fritz (she already lost the votes of half my neighborhood, including two coffee hosts).
Feb 8, '09
That accurately covers, 100%, what many have been trying to say here on the issue.
So, were those of us that have been saying for 5 years that when one considers Leonard v Adams it is a choice about character v vision, extremely lucky guessers or do we understand something that most of Portland doesn't?
He's been Sam's friend. Like you say, we'll see how this moves forward, and it seems to be. Personally, I define a friend as somebody that knows exactly what you're like, but likes you anyway. Randy is still thinking that one through, on both accounts. Do I really know what he's like? Do I like him anyway? True friends are extremely rare. Your odds are better at the Humane Society.
Unfortunately, I think all of Portland, that thinks like Randy, is going through the same issues with Sam's supporters. Keep Portland weird. We know what it's like but we like it anyway. Now, having met Sam's hard-core supporters that want to turn a pure character issue into identity politics, a lot of us are asking the same questions Randy is. Do we know Portland? Do we like it anyway? Most will answer yes to both, because humans that have invested a majority of their life in any belief only change it under the greatest duress. It's just another social filter that you have to pass to effect the system. As such, we all are diminished.
The real estate market also helps. How real is anyone going to get that has a $275,000 double mortgage, on a 600 sq ft. 1901 house with no central heat or air (42nd ave, next door)? All they care is that things appear the way they're supposed to appear, and the rest is special interest nit-picking by people that have nothing better to do. I appreciate the post. I knew through this that Randy was one of the few real people that understood what was even going on. For what it's worth, I think this piece shows we can count Carla among that number.
Feb 8, '09
People who really care about minors know the mandatory reporting procedure. People who bypass that procedure because they would rather spread rumors don't deserve the public trust.
And quit trying to make this about your goddamned whelps, LT!
8:36 a.m.
Feb 8, '09
Anon, #s 1 & 4 don't appear to be based on any known evidence...jennifer, why do you think it's likely he will be indicted--and does anyone honestly think a recall will happen six months after business as usual returns to city hall? I notice no one yet has addressed randy's thesis--personally hurt, but professionally committed to continue with Sam, and believing he should continue as well. If a wronged friend feels that way, who are the rest to judge?
Feb 8, '09
Good God, another OMGSamAdams story. This is so January.
Feb 8, '09
I have to laugh at Randy being anyone's friend besides himself. How quickly Randy turns on his "good" friends. First Ball and now Adams.
Randy is the first to turn to the media when he wants to smear someone else and the first to complain and claim victim for the same when it benefits him.
Let's find another hero in all of this because it isn't Randy.
11:20 a.m.
Feb 8, '09
If a wronged friend feels that way, who are the rest to judge?
Just a bunch of naive activists who think that any forty + man that goes after a teenager is, at minimum an emotionally immature sleazeball, and this particular sleazeball has provided aid and comfort to the opponents of gay equality, and a slap in the face to all Oregon progressives.
I was pretty excited a few years back when the young and charismatic Adams showed up as a standard bearer for a new generation. At this point I'd call for him to step down, but narcissists are often notoriously hard of hearing........
Feb 8, '09
Interesting that the individual behind the "recall sam adams" website registered the domain anonymously, and has no identifying information anywhere on the website.
Apparently Sam Adams should be subject to unlimited public scrutiny of his private life, and thrown out of office if he tries to keep it private, but those attacking him get to operate completely hidden from public view!
I agree, this whole thing is so two weeks ago.
Feb 8, '09
This is a great post. One thing, though, that I think Leonard needs to keep a watch on, is that it seems to me that as the public tide turns more hard against Adams, that it could potentially take out those bitter-enders who stand with him. For example, Fritz has effectively allowed herself to be vilified (by stupidly leaping to Adams' defense, at a time when it was clear, whatever the truth about the Adams scandal would prove to be, she too had been lied to, and she didn't know the whole story either). If this things goes to a recall, I predict that by that point, frustration with Adams (and resentment with the status quo) could be so strong and built up, that it could take out more than just Adams.
Feb 8, '09
"... it could take out more than just Adams."
Huh? I think the "bitter enders" involved here are the folks who keep stirring the pot to sell more papers, and grind anti-Adams axes that have nothing to do with his private life.
12:06 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
Huh? I think the "bitter enders" involved here are the folks who keep stirring the pot to sell more papers, and grind anti-Adams axes that have nothing to do with his private life.
Gawd..I do tire of reading this "private life" bullshit. Once Adams chose to lie to the press and get other people to lie for him, this became a very public matter.
The stirring of the pot is of Adams own making, like it or not. Dismissals based on some fantasy of "its all about sex" are intellectually insulting and frankly, vapid.
There are legitimate questions (in my opinion) here about Adams credibility and the ability to rebuild it with some key players..and with many of the city's residents. Trying to sweep that under the rug will only make matters worse in the long run.
12:31 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
Carla, there's nothing in the walls but pipes and wiring and wallboard. people create "atmosphere" and much of that is what they choose to carry in. as you did. what's clear is that Randy Leonard does want to get on with business for the sake of the city. other people want to continue to stomp the hell out of Sam, for a variety of reasons. but it's all what we each choose to focus on, what we each choose to give our attention to. in time we'll get past this, one way or another, and if our choices undermined the city, then we each have ourselves to blame, not Sam. he may be the mayor, but there are far more citizens than mayors. the democratic process makes us more important, and it's time we took that to heart.
12:41 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
people create "atmosphere" and much of that is what they choose to carry in. as you did. what's clear is that Randy Leonard does want to get on with business for the sake of the city. other people want to continue to stomp the hell out of Sam, for a variety of reasons. but it's all what we each choose to focus on, what we each choose to give our attention to. in time we'll get past this, one way or another, and if our choices undermined the city, then we each have ourselves to blame, not Sam.
Sorry Todd...I don't see it. I didn't make some sort of conscious decision to walk into City Hall and feel weirdness about the situation. Its simply the way it is. I've previously had no dealings with Adams and have had no issues with the guy, in particular. In fact, I have no position on whether or not he should resign or be recalled.
Some things come into focus because they exist. Denying them doesn't change this..and trying to remove blame from Adams for a situation of his own making only exacerbates the issue, in my view.
Feb 8, '09
It's the cost that bothers me most, either the cost of a recall election, and/or the cost of an election post-recall or post-resignation. Sam will do just fine in the next 4 years. Then we should have this discussion. Until then, let's spend our money on worthwhile things, not making some point about sex and lying.
Feb 8, '09
"think a recall will happen six months after business as usual returns to city hall"
Nah, City Hall will go back to normal - A mayor who lies to anyone who believes him whenever it gets uncomfortable for him.
As far as the cost of elections, maybe we shouidl do away with elections. They do cost something and life would be easier without them.
1:53 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
Actually, as a city commissioner at the time Ball began spreading the rumors, Leonard should have known the "reporting procedure" at least as well as Ball. But when Leonard heard about Adams's then-alleged relationship with Breedlove a couple of years after the fact (as Ball has alleged he heard about it), Leonard didn't make any more of an official report than Ball did.
Feb 8, '09
"I didn't make some sort of conscious decision to walk into City Hall and feel weirdness about the situation. Its simply the way it is."
Maybe for you. Truth is, a whole lot of us don't give a damn about about where politicians get their wicks dipped, and maybe you shouldn't either. Why don't you quit projecting your personal pre-occupation with other peoples sex lives as some kind of universal truth.
3:02 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
Maybe for you. Truth is, a whole lot of us don't give a damn about about where politicians get their wicks dipped, and maybe you shouldn't either.
If that were the issue, then you'd have a point.
3:04 p.m.
Feb 8, '09
Actually, as a city commissioner at the time Ball began spreading the rumors, Leonard should have known the "reporting procedure" at least as well as Ball.
Why would Leonard be responsible for reporting something that he believed was utterly false?
Feb 8, '09
Radmacher,
I don't recall your obsession with electoral costs when VOE was being debated.
We spent north of $500,000 of VOE funds to get Fritz elected to office, and she's only demonstrated she's the most naive sychophant, not the voice of city hall outsiders.
Feb 8, '09
Insert dead horse
now everyone go beat the ever.living.shit out of it.
Feb 8, '09
italicSome things come into focus because they exist. Denying them doesn't change this..and trying to remove blame from Adams for a situation of his own making only exacerbates the issue, in my view.italic
This thread, if anything, just confirms my thinking on this issue all along. It's not going away. It's only "about sex" to those who want to pretend it is, as a kind of back-handed defense of Adams. (It's not. It's about things like lying, campaign fraud, misusing a city office, a public official using the bully-pulpit to libel the reputations of other Portland citizens, etc.). And, what's more, the longer this situation survives, the more harm it causes. It's clear to me that as the scandal goes on, not only is the pressure mounted evermore against Adams (as the media continues to dig, as the attorney general continues to dig, as he continues to commit really awful official acts in order to try and conceal the rest of it), but the pressure mounts against those who try and come to his defense. Like or not, this Adams fiasco is truly appalling to most Portlanders, and as the tide finally carries him out, and it may well take out all those who stand too near him as well.
Now, my question is this: All along, the two options I have heard presented are: 1) Adams can resign. 2) He can be recalled in six months. Are those the only options? In particular, I wonder if he can be removed by some sort of impeachment? Perhaps a vote of the rest of the City Commissioners?
Feb 8, '09
Where does it say in any of the reports that Bob Ball talked to reporters?
"Leonard says that Ball was targeting Nigel Jacquiss, Anna Griffin and reporters at the Portland Tribune to get the story into print.
The only story on record that I have seen or heard is that Mr. Ball went to Leonard and Katz regarding his information on Adams. As I understand the story, it was Leonard that went to the media, outed Ball and made the story public.
Feb 8, '09
"Insert dead horse"
Uh, he's still in office and still lying.
How can we miss him if he won't go away?
Feb 8, '09
Kudos to Carla for standing up to the gay is okay any way crowd.
1) The problem with Adams isn't just the lie, it is the extent of the lie. It is the lie coupled with the constant denial. It is the lie and subsequent smearing of those he claimed were lying, even though he knew they were telling the truth. It was the use of City resources and his time as Commissioner to help cover up the lie. It was the apparent use of political bartering and appointments (and who knows what else) to maintain the lie.
2) Then there was the transgression itself. It wasn't a case where he was, in the heat of the moment, thinking with his dickhead (as he originally claimed). No, Sam not only became aware of Breedlove's real age, he continued the relationship, tried to disguise it as a mentoring relationship (which he now admits was a cover), and did it all the while against the better advice of everybody who was aware of what was going on. Yet Adams continued his seduction, made arrangement to attend the minor's 18th birthdate, and defended his interst on the fact that he (in Marvel comic fashion) did not say "flame on" until Breedlove turned 18.
Adams doesn't deserve to go to jail. His critics are not saying that. However he doesn't deserve to be mayor of Portland, either. He knew what he was doing was questionable enough to lie about it and try to squeeze it into legal boundaries that he perceived as beneficial to himself. He knew that despite all his BS about open and transparent government, he had to lie to get elected. And it wasn't a past lie, it was a new one. So he knew he was doing something he couldn't get elected for, that his political advisors were against, and that would outrage the community at large, yet he STILL did it!!!
What does all that tell you about he man of integrity and public trust Sam is supposed to be? To me it says he is a self-gratifying, power-hungry, young lust pervert who isn't what most people thought they were electing.
I look forward to the recall. If Sam really felt guilty, he could have fallen on his own sword (no pun intended) and been a martyr for gay rights. Instead he has insisted on defying public opinion and gambling his whole future on a tangled web of lies in order to pursue his own fleeting glories at the expense of city needs.
Feb 8, '09
He lied to a reporter that asked something he had no business asking. He was wrong to try and cover it up.
Sucks you all feel lied to and hurt by our mayor's inability to keep it in his pants with another adult and him not admitting it to a newspaper. Sorry.
This situation is only an issue to a few media people that keep digging it up and a bunch of blog commenters. The mayor lied...nobody died.
Feb 8, '09
Bob went to Randy as a concerned friend....as a city leader, randy should have probed the issue and taken bob seriously and our city would not be going through this embarresment. Randy is a joke along with the rest of the city council for supporting Adams - who should resign right away!!
Feb 8, '09
"Leonard says that Ball was targeting Nigel Jacquiss, Anna Griffin and reporters at the Portland Tribune to get the story into print. "Bob Ball was looking to take Sam out (of the mayor's race). This was not some egalitarian duty."
Excuse me. Randy should be apologizing to Ball for throwing him under the bus, now that Ball's suspicions turned out to be correct. Also, was Ball really targeting the Oregonian? Anna, is that true? Or is this another one of Randy's "mistakes"?
Randy's story has several inconsistencies--it was he and Sam that went to the media before Ball--plus his faux outrage is nauseating. He has no credibility with me anymore.
Feb 8, '09
Yawn
Feb 9, '09
"Kudos to Carla for standing up to the gay is okay any way crowd."
Thanks for admitting it's about the gay thing. A whole lot of us have known this all along.
So, which way is it okay with you for us to be gay?
10:54 a.m.
Feb 9, '09
I guess the question would come down to whether Leonard (or any other public or private official who knew about Adams and Breedlove before the story broke) had "reasonable cause to believe." I think Ball's just as tainted on this particular issue as Leonard is. It was incumbent on either one of them to go to the authorities if they had any doubt at all (just as it was for whoever told Ball). Ball knows who told him the rumor (" an individual close to Sam Adams" according to the September 2007 WW story). I assume that Leonard's smart enough to have asked Ball how he heard the story, and he claimed that Ball had been "a close friend" (according to the same story). Yet supposedly he believed the story was "utterly false?" Then again, maybe that's a question he didn't want to ask.
So, a guy who's "a close friend" comes to Leonard with a story about potential criminal conduct by another close friend and colleague. After speaking to the colleague accused of potential criminal conduct, Leonard is free of any "reasonable cause to believe" his other "close friend," and believes their charges are "utterly false" and he makes the determination that there's absolutely no reason to involve the authorities.
Of course, down the road, as it happens, the colleague/friend is the one who was lying about most everything.
I can understand why Leonard's upset with Adams. He was made into Adams's stooge. But the fact of the matter is, he went willingly into that role by not being skeptical and probing. He shouldn't have accepted Adams's blanket denial as the final word on whether Adams did anything that potentially broke the law, even if he thought Ball was scum for bringing it up. Leonard has always struck me as being somewhat more thoughtful than that, and somehow the idea that he was completely convinced nothing had happened doesn't jibe.
Which is why I think Leonard's complaint about the "reporting procedures" onto ball is kind of sad. Yeah, Ball should have reported it rather than running the story around town, but Leonard should have too, unless he was truly so gullible as to be taken in by Adams's denials, a situation that doesn't portray Leonard as a particularly effective advocate for the citizens of the city.
11:25 a.m.
Feb 9, '09
Pat Ryan, you are speaking of personal judgement. If you want to think he's a perv, go for it. My question was whether, having ALREADY judged him personally and found him wanting, Leonard's belief that Sam can still lead well is not instructive for others who feel personally betrayed?
Tamerlane, when did Sam commit campaign fraud or misuse City resources or abuse his position or libel anyone? What Ball alleged--sex with a 17 year old--has not been backed up with any evidence. To make such a claim without anything behind it is more despicable than the act in question, by far. If Ball really had anything but a rumor, he would have been bound to report it. Since Leonard never heard any substantiation, he was correct not to report it.
1:14 p.m.
Feb 9, '09
I fail to see any distinction between the positions of Ball or Leonard with regard to reporting. Neither had first-hand knowledge of any potential wrongdoing. Both of them were operating on at least second or third-hand accounts. But that doesn't absolve either one of a duty to report any more or less than it does the other.
The whole concept of the reporting statute is based on a requirement to report potential abuse because of a long history of victims being ignored because nobody had pictures shoved into their face. Looking the other way and pretending it never happened, taking the word of the person who may have committed abuse, that's the long, long road that led to reporting statutes in the first place. "Oh, no, Father/Coach/Dr. X would never do such a thing! He's such a nice man!"
Now, the Adams/Breedlove situation wasn't exactly clear-cut because of the proximity of Breedlove's 18th birthday to anything Ball alleged may have happened, not to mention the fact that at the time Leonard was contacted about it by Ball, it was two years in the past.
But to argue that because Leonard never heard anything substantiating the charge -- apart from Ball saying he'd heard about it from a close associate of Adams's, I guess -- meant that he didn't have any responsibility to report it just flies in the face of the reporting statute. Would he have looked the other way if a friend had told him that he'd heard a rumor that a high school soccer coach was having a "consensual" sexual relationship with a 16-year-old on the team? Or taken the word of the coach that he'd never do such a thing, not ever, if he'd personally confronted him? You really want to make that case for Randy Leonard?
Feb 9, '09
The Portland Mercury got it right: Application To Become Mayor of Portland
(Yes, handjobs count.)
Feb 9, '09
" when did Sam commit campaign fraud or misuse City resources or abuse his position or libel...?"
When he said in his interview with the Oregonian editorial board, "(Ball) himself had vulnerability on this issue in his own life." Okay, maybe that's slander, not libel.
1:19 p.m.
Feb 9, '09
Why would I look for instruction to someone who was utterly duped by Sam Adams?
Feb 9, '09
" Which is why I think Leonard's complaint about the "reporting procedures" onto ball is kind of sad. Yeah, Ball should have reported it rather than running the story around town, but Leonard should have too, unless he was truly so gullible as to be taken in by Adams's denials, a situation that doesn't portray Leonard as a particularly effective advocate for the citizens of the city. " darrellplant
Up until the time Ball dropped this bombshell about Adams on Leonard, there wasn't, that I recall, any reason to suggest Adams would do anything of the kind of activity suggested. Except for the fact that some people clearly objected to Adams' personality and political style, Adams, in terms of the appropriateness of his personal life for the position of mayor, seemed to be impeccable. Leonard dismissed Ball's seemingly scurrilous rumor, giving Adams the vote of confidence that at the time he seemed to be worthy of.
Feb 9, '09
Q: How can you tell when Sam Adams is lying? A: When Randy Leonard's lips are moving.
1:13 a.m.
Feb 10, '09
There never is, is there? The first accusation of unexpected behavior on the part of anyone is pretty much unexpected, by definition. That's the whole point of reporting guidelines. The basic concept is that the report is made when suspicions are first raised, not after a long-term pattern of behavior has made it blatantly obvious.
Feb 10, '09
This can probably go on forever because you can jump back and forth between reality and symbolism to just keep the bickering going. Bob Ball is a classic. Yes, he's a sleazy, politcal operator, as a matter of fact. The GLBT community doesn't like him because he's not the right kind of gay, tho. So you can be motivated by that, jump to arguing what he did, fall back to that...on and on until the average idiot that watches TV every night for entertainment concludes that progressive politicians, like conservatives, just aren't worth the hassle. You are poisoning the well for the Rudy G's of the world. Have you no shame? Don't bitch at the bitches in politics like Palin if this is the best you can do with your own! Maybe if you'd stop chewing the fat and give each other a chew you'd understand.
Feb 10, '09
Posted by: darrelplant | Feb 10, 2009 1:13:58 AM
There never is, is there? The first accusation of unexpected behavior on the part of anyone is pretty much unexpected, by definition. That's the whole point of reporting guidelines. The basic concept is that the report is made when suspicions are first raised, not after a long-term pattern of behavior has made it blatantly obvious.
I'm a career counselor and I'm hearing more and more, every day, "I won't work with kids". We have legislated so much shock and awe "for the children" that they are coming to live in a social ghetto were they are just what you wanted: untouchable.
Fact: the biggest child abusers in the state are DHS. Fact: every Mormon is a child abuser. It's simple. Use=Abuse. Generating a positive cash flow by relocating children, or having them simply to get more head count in your kingdom is no better than a baby beauty pageant. It is the opposite of being about the children. Learn from East European terrorists. How many times do they target schools to make sure they get a response from the parents? When you make it all about the precious children, you put them in the crosshairs. The old, wise adage about being seen and not heard did not survive for centuries because people lacked snark!
8:25 a.m.
Feb 10, '09
Darrel, I "heard a rumor" that you diddle goats on the weekend. You'll be hearing from the game warden--can't be too careful!
You Don't seriously believe it's appropriate to report someone for a potential crime based on GOSSIP, do you? Heaven help us. That's ridiculous. And the fact that Ball himself didn't report it is instructive--he's the cop. If he had evidence to work with, Randy Leonard is not where you go. Taking it to Randy strongly suggests Ball's info was not evidence but pure rumor.
When Adams said Ball was also vulnerable, I understood that to mean "vulnerable to accusations of pedophilia as a gay man," not "he does kids too!" if there is clarifying evidence on that statment to indicate otherwise, I'd like to hear it.
1:34 p.m.
Feb 10, '09
Go ahead, report it to the authorities. Let them investigate. The difference between you making something up and what Ball hearing that Adams had a relationship with Breedlove is that the latter story was true.
People report rumored abuse all of the time. If a kid comes to a teacher and tells the teacher that a friend of theirs has been abused, you're saying that the teacher is just supposed to blow it off? Pretty fucking callous.
1:45 p.m.
Feb 10, '09
Say Bob Ball came to Randy Leonard and told him that he'd heard another developer -- a competitor with Ball -- was ripping off the city with fraudulent contracts. Randy goes to the developer -- a good friend -- and asks him if he's ripping off the city. The friend says: "Oh, no, I would never, ever rip off the city , Randy. I'm offended you even ask me that question, why, that accusation plays into the very stereotype of the sleazy developer!" Randy takes him at his word. A year and half later, after the developer has landed another major deal and the city's paid him a lot of money, it turns out that the developer has, indeed, conducted some questionable -- and potentially criminal -- business activities.
But hey, he still builds stuff real good and it was all just rumors, right?
1:59 p.m.
Feb 10, '09
By posting that crack, TJ, you do realize you're putting yourself on the far side of even someone like Bob Ball, don't you? Ball was, at least, only repeating in private something he'd heard from someone else, even if he did have a political agenda.
You're flat-out libeling me in public simply because you want to win an argument in the comments section of a blog. And you can't even (honestly) claim that you heard this from someone else. I sure hope you've got enough sense to apologize.
Feb 10, '09
you're right, it's not about the sex. it's about selling newspapers using sex.
clue-check: there ain't nothing illegal about lying to newspapers. hell, it's the only sane response to dumbass questions.
you are all so beavis it hurts. hehehe, dudes kissin' in a bathroom, hehehehe. who gives a shit, my friend just lost her job.
Feb 10, '09
Posted by: darrelplant | Feb 10, 2009 1:34:10 PM
Go ahead, report it to the authorities. Let them investigate. The difference between you making something up and what Ball hearing that Adams had a relationship with Breedlove is that the latter story was true.
People report rumored abuse all of the time. If a kid comes to a teacher and tells the teacher that a friend of theirs has been abused, you're saying that the teacher is just supposed to blow it off? Pretty fucking callous.
What's pretty fucking callous is the attitude that says "why do you care what the police do if you have nothing to hide", Poison Ivy.
Posted by: darrelplant | Feb 10, 2009 1:59:31 PM
By posting that crack...
Oh look, more "I love the police state and think just like it", can't imagine a thing apart from it. Let's portray life using the palette of an episode of "Cops".
This was about betrayal. Oh, right, you are talking about betrayal. "It happens; get over it. It happens a lot if you're doing something wrong. Loyalty is to the police state, then whatever. Don't think. Comply with regulations. We're not fucking hippies, anymore".
That about it?
In the future please comply with FCC regs for decency. Thank you for your cooperation.
8:52 p.m.
Feb 10, '09
Of course, that's not what I said. I said that in the case of the specific libel that TJ posted, I have no particular worries if he went to authorities. If anything, I'd think he'd end up in trouble for making a false report. Or on the end of a civil suit.
It's one thing to say that you think someone is a moron (that's an opinion) and quite another to publicly allege that they've regularly committed an illegal act when you can be proved to be telling a lie.
Feb 11, '09
clue-check: there ain't nothing illegal about lying to newspapers. hell, it's the only sane response to dumbass questions.
True enough about "the moment", but your convenience is not a reason to lie. For the 10,000,000th time, you refuse to answer/ignore/reply in kind to a dumbass question; you do not lie because it is convenient, as gen X culture finds so many other excuses to do.
To be clear, the culture is a culture, not a demographic exclusively. I would include the Mayor.
3:59 p.m.
Feb 11, '09
"Go ahead, report it to the authorities. Let them investigate. The difference between you making something up and what Ball hearing that Adams had a relationship with Breedlove is that the latter story was true."
Really? It's true that Adams had sex with a 17-year old? What's your evidence? Because that was Ball's specific allegation--ILLEGAL sex.
4:01 p.m.
Feb 11, '09
"People report rumored abuse all of the time. If a kid comes to a teacher and tells the teacher that a friend of theirs has been abused, you're saying that the teacher is just supposed to blow it off? Pretty fucking callous."
If the teacher asks the kid "how do you know this," and the kid says "I heard it somewhere," and the teacher asks "where?" and the kid won't say--it wouldn't be callous not to report it, it would be prudent.
4:05 p.m.
Feb 11, '09
"It's one thing to say that you think someone is a moron (that's an opinion) and quite another to publicly allege that they've regularly committed an illegal act when you can be proved to be telling a lie."
It can be proved? Really? You're going to prove you don't diddle goats? I'm really, really, really curious to see you prove that negative. But in the meantime, you've well illustrated my point--allegations that come out of left field, with no evidence to back them up, that are potentially very personally and professionally damaging if true, and that force the "defendant" to prove a negative in order to clear his or her name, are dangerous things that should not be granted the time of day in response.
<h2>For heaven's sake Darrel, it was a hypothetical. I think you know I was not making an actual allegation. I was making clear why Ball's accusations were so reckless.</h2>